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- Help student see opportunities, not limitations
- Maintain weekly contact with the student
- Provide guidance for academic and personal development
- Monitor academic performance and attendance
- Assist articulation of short and long term goals
- Help student learn to set priorities and meet obligations responsibly
- Guide decisions on extra-curricular, community service, and summer programs
- Supervise development of student portfolio
- Attend mentor meetings, group ventures and state-wide events
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Beyond these expectations, how else can I help my mentee be most successful?
- Hold students accountable
- Approach student’s teachers personally
- Use administration and guidance counselors as resources
- Plug into student’s extended network (coaches, senior mentors)
- Be a "professional nudge"
- Communicate via telephone and computer
- Correspond over the summer, especially with students who are in programs far away
- Share information about yourself
- Use a reflective journal to understand one another
- Avoid mixed messages
- Plan excursions with other mentors and students
- Respect student’s privacy
- Be sensitive to areas of confidentiality
Other Tips for Being an Exceptional Mentor:
- Meet weekly
- Have a regular meeting time set aside only for the mentee
- Be reliable: earn your student’s trust
- Get to know your student’s strengths and weaknesses
- Find common interests with your student
- Be patient and considerate
- Have a sense of humor
- Respect one another
- Be clear about expectations for personal and academic growth
- Meet in a variety of settings
- Contact and meet the family
- LISTEN -- and try to understand the student’s perspective of the world
- Be honest, expect honesty in return
- Develop trust; be trustworthy and reliable
- Advise and guide, but allow students to own responsibility for their actions
- STAY MOTIVATED -- it can be contagious
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